Self-Help at Home
If you feel like you are struggling with your mental wellbeing, it can be good to start off by trying to help yourself.
There is a variety of ways in which you can practice self-help at home, and it is up to you on what you choose to do. Below you can find some different scenarios/situations where you might want to practice self-help and guides on how to do this.
Self-Help Guides and Further Resources
Apps
- You can use the NHS app to:
- Booking appointments.
- Viewing your medical record.
- Ordering repeat prescriptions.
- Checking symptoms.
- Finding up-to-date coronavirus advice.
- You can find out more about the app on the NHS website.
- On the Tellmi app. Tellmi provides free digital mental health support, 365 days a year (on Android, IOS, and the web) to anyone aged 11+ across Leicester, Leicestershire and Rutland. Tellmi enables people to help themselves by helping each other. The community is anonymous and age-banded. Tellmi offers 1-2-1 text-based, solution-focused therapy with a qualified therapist. This therapeutic model is designed to help individuals think positively about their future and identify existing skills and strengths.
Health and Wellbeing Resources
Reading Self-Help books
A good way to start practising self-help is by using self-help books. These can be found the Leisure Reading Collection in the University Library (Pilkington Library) or you can loan copies from the Loughborough Public Library on Granby Street.
“Reading Well” Books on prescription titles can be assessed from the University Library. These books are based on cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for adults and include copies for a range of common mental health conditions such as anxiety and depression.
Alternatively, you can read ‘Mood-boosting’ books related to mental wellbeing which are also available to loan from the University Library, these could be novels, non-fiction and poetry books.
If you would like more information on these schemes, you should visit The Reading Agency website.
Wellbeing Websites
- NHS Live Well- Advice, tips and tools to help you make the best choices about your health and wellbeing.
- The 5 Ways to Wellbeing- 5 steps researched and developed by the New Economics Foundations
- One you- One You is here to help you get healthier and feel better with free tips, tools and support
Mindfulness Resources
Below you can find journals which can help you reflection on your feelings and emotions. Additionally, there are opportunities for you to plan for the day, week and month ahead. We advise that you make some time each month to read through your past journal entries and to continue to add to them. They will be more beneficial to you if you continue to journal.
After a Crisis
Self-Help Guide
You can also find further information about mental health crisis below.
Alcohol & Drug Use
If you are in immediate danger, you can call emergency services on 999 or call campus security on 0800 526966.
Self-Help Guides
Websites/ Support Services
- Mind - Recreational drugs and alcohol information.
- Turning Point - Support service offering a variety of treatment options for alcohol and substance use.
- Frank - Honest information about drugs.
- Drink aware - Information and advice.
- Alcoholics Anonymous - Support with personal recovery and continued sobriety of individual alcoholics.
- Narcotics Anonymous - Open to anyone with a drug problem seeking help.
Anger Management
Self-Help Guides
Websites/ Support Services
- Respect - Information and support for people who are worried about their violent or aggressive behaviour towards loved ones.
Anxiety
Self-Help Guides
Websites/ Support Services
- Let’s Talk Wellbeing - Providing NHS psychological therapies.
- Mind UK - Self-care for anxiety
- Anxiety UK - Advice and support.
- No panic - Provides information, support and advice for those with panic disorder, anxiety, phobias and OCD.
- Living Life to the Full - Offers help for mild to moderate depression, anxiety and insomnia.
- Anxiety online workshop - An online workshop about anxiety and looking at ways you may be able to manage it.
You can also find more information about anxiety by looking at the webpage linked below.
Bereavement
Self-Help Guides
Websites/Support Services
- Cruse Bereavement Care - Offer advice and support for those affected by bereavement.
- SOBS (Survivors of bereavement by suicide) - Advice and support for those bereaved by suicide.
You can also find more information about bereavement by looking at the Student Services webpage linked below.
Bullying
Self-Help Guide
Depression
Self-Help Guides
Websites/Support Services
- Living Life to the Full - Offers help for mild to moderate depression, anxiety and insomnia.
- Students Against Depression - offering advice, information, guidance and resources to those affected by low mood, depression and suicidal thinking.
- Let’s Talk Wellbeing - Providing NHS psychological therapies.
You can also find more information about depression by having a look at the Student Services webpage linked below.
Domestic Violence
If you are in immediate danger, you can call emergency services on 999 or call campus security on 0800 526966.
Self-Help Guides
Websites/Support Services
- UAVA (United against Violence and Abuse) - A consortium of three local specialist providers of domestic abuse and sexual violence services.
Additional Resources
Eating Disorders/Problems
Self-Help Guides
Websites/Support Services
- Beat - giving individuals experiencing an eating disorder and their loved ones a place where they feel listened to, supported and empowered.
- EDISS (Eating Disorders in Student Services) - EDISS is run by First Steps and offers the following services, Peer support, Counselling, Recovery and Self-Help Groups, Online Befriending, Drop-in support and Volunteering opportunities.
You can find more information about eating disorders by having a look at the Student Services webpage linked blow.
Exam Stress
Self-Help Guides
You can find more information about exam anxiety/stress by having a look at the Student Services webpage linked below.
Loneliness and Homesickness
Self-Help Guides
Injury and Illness
If you are in immediate danger, you can call emergency services on 999 or call campus security on 0800 526966.
Self-Help Guide
You can find more information on injury and sickness by having a look at the Student Services webpage linked blow.
Procrastination
Rape and Sexual Assault
If you are in immediate danger, you can call emergency services on 999 or call campus security on 0800 526966.
Self-Help Guide
Websites/ support services
- UAVA (United against Violence and Abuse) - A consortium of three local specialist providers of domestic abuse and sexual violence services.
Additional Resources
- Student Services Know violence campaign - on domestic and sexual violence and stalking.
- Loughborough University Incident Reporting: Sexual Violence
You can find more information about being a victim of crime by having a look at the Student Services webpage linked below.
Relationships and Sexual Problems
- Relate - The UK's largest provider of relationship support including counselling.
You can find more information about sexual health and romantic relationships and conflicts by having a look at the Student Services webpages linked below.
Self-Harm
Trigger warning: please note that these resources contain sensitive information about self-harm which may be distressing to some.
If you are in immediate danger, you can call emergency services on 999 or call campus security on 0800 526966.
Self-Help Guides
- NHS: Self-harm, a self help guide - An NHS webpage including information on how people may self-harm and why, how other people might react, ways to stop harming yourself and longer term solutions, and how you can support a friend or family member who is self-harming.
- The National Self Harm Network: What is self harm?- A webpage explaining what self harm is, who self harms and why.
- The National Self-Harm Network: Distractions that can help - A booklet containing suggested mechanisms for distracting from self-harm.
- Mind also has a page for if you need to help yourself now.
Websites/ support services
- Harmless is a user led organisation that provides a range of services about self-harm and suicide prevention including support, information, training and consultancy to people who self-harm, their friends and families and professionals and those at risk of suicide.
- Mind has a website explaining self-harm, including possible causes and how you can access treatment and support. Includes tips for helping yourself, and guidance for friends and family.
- The Mix has an article containing information on self-harm distractions and coping strategies.
You can find more information about self-harm by having a look at the Student Services webpage linked below.
Sexuality
Self-Help Guide
Websites/ support services
- Leicester LGBT+ Centre - Provide information on a wide range of subjects that affect LGBT+ people’s lives including signposting and referrals to other agencies.
- LSU LGBT Association - Provide a support network for every student who identifies as lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans and all other denominations of sexuality and gender.
You can find out more information about sexuality on the Student Services webpage linked below.
Sleep and Insomnia
Self-Help Guides
- Insomnia
- NHS guide – Sleeping Problems
- Students Against Depression – sleep log
- Sleep app – sleep trackers and programme to help treat insomnia
- Mind – how to cope with sleeping problems
Websites/ support services
- Sleep and tiredness - NHS
- 10 tips to help insomnia - NHS
- Living Life to the Full - Offers help for mild to moderate depression, anxiety and insomnia
- UK Sleep Survey 2018
- The Sleep Council
- World Sleep Day - Philips
Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings
If you are in immediate danger, you can call emergency services on 999 or call campus security on 0800 526966.
Self-Help Guides
Websites/ support services
- Urgent help - details of NHS services to contact in a crisis.
- Calm - Provides listening services, information and support for men at risk of suicide
- Samaritans - 24 hour emotional support for anyone struggling to cope.
- SOBS (Survivors Of Bereavement by suicide) - Advice and support for those bereaved by suicide.
Surviving Childhood Sexual Abuse
Self-Help Guide
Last Updated: 8th October 2024